Shame Free Therapy • Bring Your Whole Self • Oregon and Washington
Kink & Poly
Affirming therapy
You deserve space to talk honestly about your life without having to make it sound more conventional first.
Room for your relationships.
Room for you.
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Space for your relationships
Exploring kink, polyamory, or another form of consensual non-monogamy? You’re welcome here.
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More than one part of your life
These parts of your life don’t have to become the whole story in therapy. We also will not undervalue their importance.
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Begin with what matters to you
Our work can start with what you’re feeling, what matters to you, and where you want something to be different.
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RELATIONSHIPS ON YOUR TERMS
Your relationship structure isn’t a diagnosis
Space to explore, without a prescribed answer.
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Your relationship context
Polyamory or consensual non-monogamy may be part of your life, a possibility, or a place you feel stuck.
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Needs, agreements, and transitions
Explore jealousy, changing agreements, differing needs, relationship transitions, or others’ expectations.
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No prescribed answers
Therapy makes room for your questions, without making monogamy—or non-monogamy—the expected answer.
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HOW WE WORK HERE
Kink doesn’t have to be the problem
or the focus
As space for curiosity, not for you to be put under a microscope.
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Room to explore
Explore identity, communication, boundaries, or parts of yourself that haven’t always felt welcome.
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It doesn’t have to be the focus
Come for burnout, anxiety, grief, or something else—without kink becoming the explanation for everything.
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Curiosity, consent, and agency
When it matters, explore kink with curiosity and attention to consent, agency, and well-being.
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WHAT THIS CAN LOOK LIKE
What we might work on
Your needs. Your choices. Your pace.
Naming your needs
Noticing your needs and finding words for them.
Making room for uncertainty
Navigating uncertainty, comparison, jealousy, or changes in relationships.
Boundaries and connection
Setting boundaries without losing sight of connection.
Agreements that still fit
Exploring the difference between an agreement you’ve made and one that still feels right for you.
Less room for judgment
Working through shame, judgment, or pressure to explain yourself.
Kink and polyamory are distinct experiences. You don’t need to identify with both, or have a settled label, to find something useful here.
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COMMON QUESTIONS
A few questions about working together
Affirming care, honest conversations, and space for your experience.
Can affirming therapy still make room for hard questions?
Yes. There’s room to respect your identity and relationship choices while looking honestly at what is and isn’t working.
What if something in a relationship is hurting?
Consent, power, boundaries, and emotional safety still matter. We can explore difficult experiences without assuming your identity or relationship structure is the cause and without dismissing something that hurts.
Is this individual therapy or relationship therapy?
This is a space for individual therapy, not couples or multi-partner sessions. We can work with how relationships affect you while keeping the focus on your needs, choices, and sense of self.
Still have questions?
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ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS
Ready to begin when you are
Room to show up exactly as you are
Confidential individual telehealth therapy throughout Oregon and Washington —
Portland, Salem, Eugene, Bend, Seattle, Tacoma, Spokane, Vancouver, and everywhere between.